Mediation & Collaborative Law

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Mediation and Collaborative Law

Our family team offers a variety of different options for resolving a dispute, enabling clients to choose the process which best suits their circumstances. Matters can be resolved through the use of mediation, arbitration, collaborative law, 1 lawyer 2 clients, or litigation.

Mediation & Collaborative Law: What We Do

Resolving matters outside of the court can have a number of advantages. It is less likely to be confrontational, it is more confidential, quicker and more cost-effective.

There may also be a better chance of reaching an agreement that best reflects the interests of both of you, as opposed to having to abide by the conditions of an order imposed upon you by a Judge, a stranger who will make decisions that may not be in accordance with you preferences and wishes.

About Our Team of Mediators

Our mediators are experienced ‘all issues’ mediators, meaning they can mediate about financial arrangements and children arrangements.

Our collaborative divorce lawyer services span wide, as we can offer flexible approaches with mediation being able to take place via Zoom or in person so we can fit around your personal arrangements.

We can also offer co-mediation where we charge a combined fee so you get the expertise of two skilled mediation solicitors for less than their individual rates. This is an option many couples prefer as it often provides a gender balance.

Independent Mediator

An independent mediator will help a couple to resolve the practical issues that have arisen following the breakdown of their marriage or relationship.

Mediation can deal with any practical issue that the couple would like to address. These may range from questions about where their children should live and how often they should see each parent, to detailed financial issues.

Generally speaking, the couple will meet for sessions alongside the mediator or mediators. Some couples prefer the co-mediation method, which can allow for both a male and female mediator to be present.

There are a number of stages within mediation before an agreement can be achieved. Initially, it is necessary to collate the information and establish trust between parties. The mediators need to understand the information provided before being able to assist the couple in attempting to find a solution.

An agreement reached through mediation is voluntarily entered into by both parties, with the terms often finalised over a series of meetings.

If necessary, this agreement can be made binding via a court order and a member of BBS Law’s family team will be able to assist clients with this.

Resolving through Collaboration

Collaborative law is another alternative to traditional court proceedings.

One of the main differences between collaborative law and mediation is the support of lawyers representing each party being present at meetings. It is a non-confrontational way of bringing the parties together to resolve matters relating to children and finance.

It generates a dignified and cooperative attitude to negotiation and the commitment of the separating couple and their lawyers is to achieve a settlement which will be as suitable as possible for the family without the threat of court proceedings.

From family mediation solicitors to divorce services, all resolutions begin with the help of our skilled solicitors.

Contact our mediators today to discuss your situation and find out how our skilled team can help you reach a unified decision.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is collaborative divorce the same as mediation?

Collaborative law is similar to mediation. However, instead of having a single independent adjudicator, both people are represented by a solicitor or family lawyer throughout the negotiations. At the first meeting, both people sign a formal participation agreement not to go to court. If that changes later, both solicitors will normally withdraw from the process, and both will need to seek new legal representatives.

The purpose of collaborative law is to keep both parties talking. Your legal experts will guide you through the process to prevent ‘stalemates’ and to help you both reach a satisfactory resolution. We have family dispute lawyers who are fully trained in collaborative law and happy to work with you and the other party’s solicitor to ensure the process goes smoothly.

Can the same law firm represent both parties in a divorce?

Yes, we offer 1 lawyer 2 clients as part of our services. You can find out more about that here.

Do you take a solicitor to mediation?

Usually mediation meetings are attended by each person and the mediator. You are able to each take legal advice outside of the joint meetings. However, it may be appropriate and helpful to have a joint mediation session with you both having your solicitors present too. This is called Hybrid Mediation and we can discuss this with you both as to whether this is appropriate or necessary as suitability is assessed on an individual basis.

What happens if one party refuses mediation?

Mediation is voluntary and you both must agree to it in order for it to proceed.

What should I consider before mediation?

It is important to think about whether you feel you are able to speak freely and respectfully to one another. The success of your mediation relies on you both being engaged, honest, and respectful. If there is ongoing domestic abuse it is unlikely that mediation will be the best process for you at this time.

Our mediators will be able to address any concerns you have and they will screen for any safeguarding issues when they speak to each of you in the confidential individual meeting before the joint sessions begin.

Who pays for family mediation?

Normally each person pays their own costs of the mediation meetings but a couple are able to come to a different arrangement about this depending on what works for them and their financial circumstances.

There is also a Mediation Voucher Scheme available for couples that mediate about children arrangements (this can be in addition to financial matters). This entitles each couple to £500 towards their mediation fees. Our mediators will discuss this and payment options with you both before the mediation begins.

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